LOVE, FEAR AND
HOPE
ad-Dawah illaah
Magazine
One of the most beautiful things about the concept of worship in
Islaam is the truly unique way in which it incorporates the feeling
of love, fear and hope within the hearts of the worshippers of
Allaah. Understanding how to combine these three qualities into the
worship (ibaadah) of Allaah is one of the most essential things
that every Muslim must grasp, not least because every sect which
has drifted from the Straight Path has strayed in the aspect of
worship. The deviation of the other religions in this regard is
clear for all to see: “God is love! Jesus is love!” say
the Christians, denying the fact that Allaah should be feared too.
As for the Jews, their hearts were
filled only with hope; hope that the Fire will never touch them,
since they were the “Promised People”.
In Islaam however, no worship is complete without the presence of
all three qualities: love of Allaah, hope in His Mercy and fear of
His Punishment. Contemplate the opening Soorah of the Qur'aan -
Soorah al-Faatihah - and you will see this for yourself.
Aayah 1: “All praise [and thanks] is for Allaah, Rabb
of all the worlds.”
In this opening aayah (verse) of the Qur'aan, we have
LOVE of Allaah and every time we recite this aayah we are
testifying to our love for Allaah. How is that you ask?
It is because in the aayah, we are acknowledging that Allaah is our
Rabb and the Rabb of all the worlds. Rabb is usually translated as
‘the Lord’, but this translation does not do
justification to this name of Allaah and all the meanings this name
carries. In reality, Rabb means that Allaah is the Creator of
everything; He sustains and nourishes everything; He gives life and
Death; anything good that we have is from Him; everything is
dependant on Him and nothing can happen unless He wills it.
Furthermore, for the Muslims He - the Rabb - in the One who has
guided us to the Truth and given us good morals and manners.
Thus when we testify that Allaah is our Rabb, then we are
acknowledging that He is the One who has given us so many blessings
- so many that if we try to enumerate His blessings, we would be
unable to do so. So how could we not but LOVE Him?
After all, we all love those who show kindness towards us or
present us with gifts. And therefore the Messenger of Allaah
(salla-allahu alaihe wa-sallam) encouraged the exchange of gifts
between Muslims because it helps to strengthen ties and develop
love for one another. He (salla-allahu alaihe wa-sallam) said,
“Give gifts to one another, you will come to love one
another.”[1]
So imagine the LOVE we should have for our Rabb who has given us
everything: nice families, shelter, security, food, health and
above all the Guidance of Islaam and the Sunnah. We should be
overwhelming in our love for Him. That is why we praise Him and
thank Him and say, “All praise (and thanks) is for
Allaah, Rabbil-‘aalameen.”
Aayah 2: The Rahmaan (Merciful) and the
Raheem (Mercy-Giving).”
In the first aayah of Soorah al-Faatihah, Allaah
mentioned He was the Rabb. In this aayah two more of His beautiful
names are mentioned: ar-Rahmaan and ar-Raheem. Ar-Rahmaan means
that He is the Most Merciful. Ar-Raheem means that He is the Giver
of Mercy, in other words His actions are full of Mercy and He shows
Mercy to His creation.[2]
When we mention these two names of Allaah, then we have HOPE. Since
He is the One who is full of Mercy, and we hope He will forgive our
mistakes and shortcomings. We should never loose hope, because
Allaah says in the Qur'aan, “O My slaves, who have
transgressed against themselves! Despair not of the Mercy of
Allaah, Verily Allaah forgives all sins (except sins). Truly He is
Oft-Forgiving, the Most Merciful” [39: 53]
The need to have FEAR in our worship is shown by the next aayah of
Soorah al-Faatihah.
Aayah 3: “King/Master of the Day of
Judgement.”
When we recite this aayah, we remind ourselves of the
Day of Judgement - that awful Day, when all of humanity shall stand
before Allaah … naked, uncircumcised and barefooted. People
will appear drunk though they are not.
On that Day, every person will stand before Allaah and account for
his sins, knowing that not even the smallest action which he did is
hidden from Allaah: “So whosoever does good equal to
the weight of an atom, shall see it. And whosoever does evil equal
to the weight of an atom shall see it.” [Soorah 99 :
7-8]
So when we recite this third aayah of Soorah al-Faatihah, we remind
ourselves of this Judgement and accountability and that should
bring about in us a sense of fear - that maybe our evil actions
will be too great and we will be responsible for them - May Allaah
protect us from such a fate. Then the next verse goes on to say:
“You alone we worship.” i.e. we single
out Allaah for our worship. And how do we worship Him? With LOVE,
HOPE and FEAR. And in order to achieve these qualities, we need
Allaah’s assistance, so we say then, “We seek
Your Aid.”
Striking
the Balance
After understanding the need to have love, hope and
fear in our worship, the next question that naturally arises is
that, in what proportion should these qualities be present in our
worship? Again we turn to the Qur'aan for the answer.
“Call upon Him with Fear and Hope.” [
Soorah (7): 56]
“Their sides forsake their beds, to invoke their Lord
in Fear and Hope.” [(32):
16]
So both fear and hope should be present in our hearts in equal
proportions. Anas reported that the Prophet (salla-allahu alaihe
wa-sallam) entered upon a young boy who was dying. The Prophet
(salla-allahu alaihe wa-sallam) asked, “How are
you?” The boy replied, “O Messenger of Allaah,
I am in between hoping in Allaah and fearing for my
sins.” The Prophet (salla-allahu alaihe wa-sallam) said,
“The like of these two qualities do not unite in the
heart of a servant except that Allaah gives him what he hopes for
and protects him from what he feared.”[3]
Therefore whenever we do a good action, we should hope that it has
been accepted by Allaah, but at the same time we should also have
fear that maybe it isn’t enough or that the good deed has not
been worthy of acceptance. Likewise when we sin, we should have
hope that Allaah will accept our repentance and forgive us, but we
should also fear that we may be accountable for it.
This balance should be reflected in our Dawah (which of course is
also worship). So when we invite others to the Truth, we should not
give them the impression that ‘they have nothing to worry
about’, nor do we suggest that ‘they are doomed
forever’. Rather we couple warnings with encouragement. We
inform them of the horrors of the Fire and tell them about the
bliss of Paradise. Just as we find Allaah telling us in the
Qur'aan: “Verily your Lord is Quick in Punishment and
verily He is the Oft-Forgiving, the Giver of Mercy.”
[(7): 167]
And the scholars of Islaam say, “He who worships Allaah
with hope only is a murji’ee. He who worships Him in fear
only is a Harooree [Khaarijee]. And He who worships Allaah in love
only is a Zindeeq [eg. the Soofis, the Christians, etc]. But he who
worships Allaah in fear, love and hope is a Muwahhid Mu’min
[a believer upon Tawheed].”[4]
The Murji’a were a sect that emerged within the first century
of Islaam. The people of this sect (i.e. the murji’ees)
believe that sins do not affect faith i.e. no matter what sins a
person commits, his eeman (faith) is complete and perfect. They
worship Allaah only with hope because they believe that as long as
one believed and testified to Islaam, they would enter Paradise
regardless of their actions.
Unfortunately, all too often nowadays we find a similar attitude
amongst many Muslims today, which is why we find that so often we
try to advise someone to turn to the Deen and abandon sin, they
just point to their hearts and say, “Allaah knows what is in
my heart”, or “Allaah forgives”, or something
else like that.
As for the Khawaarij, they worshipped Allaah in fear only because
they held that anyone who commits major sins was a disbeliever and
would therefore dwell in Hellfire forever. This of course is gross
extremism and straying from the correct path. The Prophet
(salla-allahu alaihe wa-sallam) said: “There were two men
of Banoo Israa’eel who strove equally. One of then committed
sins and the other strove hard in worship. And the one who strove
in worship cto see the other in sin and kept saying to him:
“Desist.” So one day he found him committing a sin and
so said to him: “Desist” So he replied, “Leave me
by my Lord, have you been sent as a watcher over me?”. He
said, “By Allaah, Allaah will not forgive you, nor will
Allaah admit you to Paradise”. Then their souls were taken
and they came together before the Lord of the Worlds. So Allaah
said to the one who strove in worship: “Did you have
Knowledge of Me, or did you have any power in what is in my
Hands?” And He said to the sinner: “Go and enter
Paradise through My Mercy.” And He said to the other:
“Take him to the fire.” Aboo Hurairah t said:
“By Him in whose Hand is my soul! He spoke a word which
destroyed this world and the hereafter for
him.”[5]
Therefore we should never say of anyone that he or she is a
‘lost cause’ or ‘doomed’ or the like for
this is a great sin. However, we fear for those who commit major
sins because they have been threatened with punishment in the
Qur'aan and the Hadeeth. However it is up to Allaah whether He
chooses to punish them or whether He will forgive them.
The Zindeeqs - or the heretics - are groups, such as many of the
Soofis who have become like the Christians and reduced the religion
to just ‘love’ and so all their talk and their mystical
practices are centred around developing more
‘love’.
It is thus clear how imbalances in any of the three qualities of
worship can lead to major deviation and straying to the True
Guidance. It is therefore important for every Muslim to combine all
three of them in his heart properly. As was mentioned before, the
fear and hope should be in equal proportions[6], but as for love
then that should be uppermost. As Fudayl ibn-‘Iyaad -
rahimahullah - (d.187H) said,
“The love is better than the fear. The fear checks us
from sinning, and the love makes us do what is prescribed with an
open heart.”[7]
May Allaah grant us what we hope for and protect us from what we
fear. And may the Blessings of Allaah be upon our Prophet Muhammed,
upon his family, his Companions and upon all those who follow
Guidance until the Last Day.
[1]
Collected by Imaam Bukhari in al-Adabul-Mufrad and declared hasan
by al-Albaanee in al-Irwaa (1601)
[2] As explained by Ibnul-Qayyim (d.751H) in Badaa’I
ul-Fawaa’id.
[3] Collected in Sunan at-Tirmidhi and Sunan Ibn Majah and
authenticated by Sheikh al-Albani in Ahkam al-Janaa’iz
(no.2)
[4] Quoted by Ibn Rajjab in al-Takhweef minan-Naar.
[5] Collected in Sunan Abu Dawood (english trans. vol.3, p.1365,
no.4883). See Saheehul-Jaami (4455) by Sheikh al-Albani.
[6] This was the opinion of most of the Salaf. Al-Fudayl ibn
‘Iyyaad said that, when one is healthy and well, then fear
should predominate, but when terminally ill then hpoe should
predominate - so that one should strive to do good when well and
not despair of Allaah’s Mercy when terminally ill.
[Al-Takhweef minan-Naar]
[7] Reported in Al-Takhweef minan-Naar of Ibn Rajab. Note that some
scholars hold that the fear is better than love, and Allaah knows
best.